Thursday, November 23, 2006
To Cum or Not to Cum
Lately, I feel the I have become "Ms. Manners" of sex workers' clients. I am flatted that clients ask for my advice. I feel qualified, to a certain extent, to answer their questions, because I know pretty well how sex workers feel about their questions.
The most frequently asked question is whether the worker, like the client, should have an orgasm. In theory, this should not matter at all to the client. It is the job of the worker to make him climax not the other way around. But many clients want to feel that they are pleasuring their workers and that the latter enjoy the encounter. Experienced workers, when asked, "What do you like to do?" will reply, "It's not about me. It's your time to do what you like." It is highly unlikely that a worker will enjoy his meetings with every clients. Nonetheless, savvy workers know how to cope with situations that are not particularly pleasant for them.
Some workers climax every session, their gift, as it were, to their clients. Others, sometimes cannot climax during the session (tops sometimes fake it), or do not want do so. The reasons are many: If a worker sees more than one client within a short period of time it is easier for him not to climax with the first or even second client. Some workers are not turned on enough and don't know how to play the mind game with themselves that will make that happen. (See my book, "Sex Workers As Virtual Boyfriends.") Still others are on drugs that inhibit their ability to climax. Some actually take drugs like Viagra tm to make it happen.
If it is important for a client that his worker climax, that aspect needs to be discussed before the latter arrives for the session. Logically, "release" masseurs who often schedule a number of sessions is succession should be exempt from such demands.
I would be curious to hear what other client think about my comments.
Lately, I feel the I have become "Ms. Manners" of sex workers' clients. I am flatted that clients ask for my advice. I feel qualified, to a certain extent, to answer their questions, because I know pretty well how sex workers feel about their questions.
The most frequently asked question is whether the worker, like the client, should have an orgasm. In theory, this should not matter at all to the client. It is the job of the worker to make him climax not the other way around. But many clients want to feel that they are pleasuring their workers and that the latter enjoy the encounter. Experienced workers, when asked, "What do you like to do?" will reply, "It's not about me. It's your time to do what you like." It is highly unlikely that a worker will enjoy his meetings with every clients. Nonetheless, savvy workers know how to cope with situations that are not particularly pleasant for them.
Some workers climax every session, their gift, as it were, to their clients. Others, sometimes cannot climax during the session (tops sometimes fake it), or do not want do so. The reasons are many: If a worker sees more than one client within a short period of time it is easier for him not to climax with the first or even second client. Some workers are not turned on enough and don't know how to play the mind game with themselves that will make that happen. (See my book, "Sex Workers As Virtual Boyfriends.") Still others are on drugs that inhibit their ability to climax. Some actually take drugs like Viagra tm to make it happen.
If it is important for a client that his worker climax, that aspect needs to be discussed before the latter arrives for the session. Logically, "release" masseurs who often schedule a number of sessions is succession should be exempt from such demands.
I would be curious to hear what other client think about my comments.
Labels: Climaxing by Sex Workers
